I want to let go my selfish hubby but his family is begging

QUESTION:
Hi morning Can I ask you a question?
I have been married three going 4 yours now but my husband his very mean. Whenever it comes to month end and I ask him for money he is vex with me. He only pays light bill every other month and I have to be on his back for water bill. Now I have to put him out and I feel guilty.
If only he changes his mean ways I would be happy. I have 2 kids not for him but he doesnt give them nothing either. Believe me he had me fooled cause he didnt show that side when we met up until we got hitched.
His family thinks am unfair and should ave gave im an option.am so confused no.
Lorianne

RESPONSE: Dear Lorianne,
Somehow it seems as if some information is missing.
If everything is as you say it is, you need to first separate your emotions from reality. If your child steals will you love him or put him out.. but you would still love him wouldnt you!
Dont be hard on yourself, because you and your children should be your priority. You are not unfair. Newsflash, he wont change.. its going to get worse. You NEED to run.. go with your gut instincts or you’ll b sorry.

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